Today it’s the last day of December which means tomorrow is 2019!! OMG time is flying!! So I decided that it was time to stop and to reflect on the way I’m living. Guess what, I found out that all I’ve been doing is surviving. I really need to live more!! For the next year I decided that I need to change my perspective about life. The way you live only depends on your state of mind. So use this power for your wellbeing.
I’m actually reading books about self knowledge and I’m meditating a lot. I’m really focusing on building a relationship with myself because that’s the more important relationship you’ll ever have in your life. In order to have good relationships with others, you need to be in peace with yourself and then you’ll be able to share your light with the world.
To help me connect with my true essence and reflect about my last year, I started to write in a tiny notebook everything about last year, like the good things that happened, the bad ones, the relationships, what I am proud of or what I regret… This really helped me to have a whole picture of my last year and which aspects do I need to focus in order to make the next year the best ever!! And what about you? How was your year? Do you feel like you’re living the life that you deserve? Are you happy?
This is the perfect time for you to reflect about these things!! I really recommend this technique that I used by making a whole view of the previous year in a notebook. However, everyone is different so, feel free to use your own method. But please promise you’ll reflect about your life because remember you are amazing and you deserve all the best in the world.
One more Christmas has gone and I can’t believe it! It went, as always so fast… I just wish I could do it all over again, but I guess that’s why it’s so special, it’s only once a year so we just have to enjoy it as much as possible while it lasts. However, I have good news, Christmas only ends on the sixth of January so, feel free to eat lots of Christmas sweets with the excuse that it’s Christmas😋. Actually, it is whenever you want!! And how was your Christmas?? I’m so curious to hear all the different and amazing traditions that you have in Christmas!!😍
This year my Christmas was completly different… Let’s just say a lot of things have changed in my life and I didn’t spend Christmas, as usual, with my whole family. However, this wasn’t a bad thing at all, it made me realize that Christmas is only Christmas if you are with the people that you really like even if they are family or not because sometimes even family lets you down. You don’t need to be with people that you don’t feel comfortable.
I’ve always created this huge expectation for Christmas since I was a child, and many times I felt disappointed because I couldn’t feel that huge happiness. However with this change I realized that I had to let go these memories and stop to seek that huge happiness and start to make a new, different and amazing Christmas. Because Christmas it’s all about feeling grateful for everything that you have and even if you don’t feel happy with it, just think that there are lots of people that live way worse than you so, try to feel satisfided with litle things. Because that’s happiness, litle moments of joy, from people that you love or from people that you are not that close but that suprisse you. For me, actions always speak louder than words and the good actions are what make good people not just good talk.
Even thought, in the beginning this change for me looked like the worst thing ever, it made me grow up and it actually turned the best thing ever. I felt genuinely happy, it was magical. I hope that you felt this as well and that you had a magical Christmas.🎄